Have you ever started a brand new piece of music and couldn’t wait to sit down and practice?
But maybe after a few days, the novelty fades.
You start really struggling with the coordination of rhythms on the first page, the fingering on page 3, and are soon overcome by some serious self-doubt about whether you’ll ever pull this off.
Meanwhile, your load at work triples, the kids get colds, and your husband decides to launch his third mid-life crisis of the year.
Amidst the chaos of daily life, your desire to master this piece suddenly pales in comparison to all the other things on your must-do list.
And suddenly you realize it’s been weeks since you’ve even sat down at the keys.
In moments like these, it’s far too easy to blame a lack of motivation for the gaps in your practice.
But I’d like to propose a few far more actionable solutions.
Motivation will fade. It’s systems that create consistency.
Systems grounded in reducing friction, creating predictable routines, identifying (and tracking!) your own version of progress, and knowing exactly what you need to do when you sit down at the piano.
Ready? Let’s get to it!
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- Stop Making Motivation the Requirement for Practicing
- Choose a Practice Trigger
- Never Sit Down at the Piano Without a Plan
- Make Your Progress Visible
- Use Accountability – Even If You're Practicing Alone
- Make Practice More Interesting – Not Just More Disciplined
- Use a Practice App to Remove the Friction
- Emergency "Motivation Fades" Piano Practice Plan
- Consistency Doesn't Mean Never Missing a Day
- Final Thoughts on How to Build a Practice Habit That Survives Your Motivation
Stop Making Motivation the Requirement for Practicing
When it comes to motivation and achieving goals, there’s a pervasive myth that motivation has to come first.
That to take the steps to do what you want, you have to feel motivated.
But in reality, motivation often only hits after you’ve done something.
Only in rare instances will you feel motivated to sit down and practice piano.
Most of the time, it’s consistent systems and habits that keep you showing up.
Motivation comes only after you’ve taken consistent action toward your goal, not before.
If you wait for motivation to strike before taking action, you’ll likely wait a long time.
Replace Motivation with Habit
Instead of waiting for motivation to strike, focus on setting up consistently good practice habits.
Set up a practice schedule at a time of day when it makes the most sense for you.
Release yourself from strict practice requirements.
Give yourself the freedom to use the time you’ve set aside in the best possible way on any given day.
On some days, that might be an hour of thoughtful practice.
But on others, it may be running through random sheet music you love.
The key is to make practice a normal part of your daily routine.
Shift Your Identity
Envision yourself as someone who takes piano seriously and practices consistently.
Defining your identity is one of the best ways to ingrain a habit, and it’s discussed at length in the phenomenal book on habit formation, Atomic Habits, by James Clear.
By envisioning yourself as a pianist, you’re going to start making choices that support your identity as a pianist.
If you truly believe yourself to be a pianist, consistent daily practice will be one of those things you accept without question.
Identity removes the need for motivation because, as a pianist, regular practice habits are a given whether you feel like practicing or not.
Choose a Practice Trigger
Our lives are built on routines.
We build morning routines, bedtime routines, and we find ways to stick routine in anywhere we possibly can.
The brain loves routine because it cuts down on the amount of processing it has to do, a great feature when it comes to building a new habit.
Figure out where regular practice time fits best into your daily schedule and set your own practice trigger to get more consistent piano practice without relying on motivation.
Examples:
- After morning coffee → 10 minutes of scales/repertoire
- After dinner → 20 minutes at the piano
- After kids go to bed → one focused practice block
- Before watching TV → 15 minutes of piano
Fit in practice wherever it makes the most sense for you.
Don’t Rely on a Giant Block of Free Time
It’s so easy to tell yourself that you’ll start practicing tomorrow.
As if you’ll suddenly be granted unlimited free time without any obligations or responsibilities to worry about at some mythical future date.
I don’t know about you, but I haven’t even come close to winning the time lottery, and in fact, time seems to be more limited as I get older.
Accept the fact that your free time is limited.
It may seem counterintuitive, but shorter practice sessions are actually better anyway for learning than longer ones.
Embrace this fact and adapt your practice accordingly.
Make Starting Ridiculously Easy
Starting can feel so hard.
Our brains can make starting feel impossible.
My brain has talked me out of starting countless endeavors over the years simply because starting feels insurmountable.
I’ve learned that to build consistent habits, you have to lower the hurdle of starting so your brain has no chance to talk you out of it.
Prepare the environment:
- Leave the piano uncovered.
- Keep your music ready.
- Have your practice plan accessible.
- Keep your phone away unless you’re using it for practice.
- Decide what you’ll work on before sitting down.
Lower the starting bar, and sometimes your brain’s next opposition is uncertainty about what to do with your practice time.
Never Sit Down at the Piano Without a Plan
I’ve wandered across the wastelands of mindless repetition so many times in my musical journey.
In other words, I’ve spent a lot of time at the keys without identifying any clear goals.
And without clear goals, there is no real progress.
Why This Hurts Consistency
Although there is a time and place for unfocused practice, it can feel unrewarding.
If you don’t know:
- What you’re working on
- Why you’re working on it
- What success looks like
…it is much harder to feel like your practice techniques are producing anything.
But by creating a simple practice plan, you’ll know exactly what to work on and whether you’re making progress.
Believe it or not, you can even make progress if you don’t have a piano! Check out my previous post on how to practice piano without a piano if you’re curious to learn more.
Create a Simple Practice Plan
Before each session, identify what you want to improve.
I like to start by writing down all the pieces I’m working on and identifying specific measures or aspects of playing that I’m currently struggling with.
If you don’t know what you want to work on, try this.
- Record yourself playing something.
- Evaluate the recording.
- Make adjustments.
Learning to give yourself feedback can help you make faster progress and results in a more effective practice routine.
Embracing feedback in all its forms helps you become a better musician and was the topic of my previous blog post.
Make Your Progress Visible
One reason adult learners find piano practice discouraging is that progress is invisible unless you name it.
The further along you get in your piano studies, the more subtle your improvements.
But the good news is that if you track your progress, the progress itself will suddenly seem much more apparent.
Track Your Progress
There are simple things you can track to make your progress more visible.
Here are a few ideas:
- Practice minutes
- Days practiced
- Tempo
- Difficult passages mastered
- Pieces learned
- Recordings
- Specific goals accomplished
Why Tracking Helps
The best thing about tracking is that it gives you evidence that your effort is going somewhere.
When motivation fades, evidence can replace motivation.
A practice journal can be an amazing resource not only for tracking your progress but also for reflection.
Reflecting on a practice session while it’s still fresh in your mind is the best time to capture your experiences, breakthroughs, or areas where you’re still struggling.
Although I love my pencil and paper, I also rely on an app called Modacity to help me track my progress.
Musicians created this app for musicians, and it helps you craft a thoughtful, deliberate piano practice routine.
Want to see how a dedicated practice app works? Check out Modacity and see whether organizing and tracking your practice could help you stay consistent.
Use Accountability – Even If You’re Practicing Alone
Accountability is another great way to establish a habit.
This tactic is also suggested in Atomic Habits and is embraced by Modacity.
Modacity tracks the minutes you practiced, consecutive days, and the number of improvements you’ve made over time.
I’ve found the consecutive days feature to be particularly compelling, and I’m currently on a 77-day practice streak.
Recording Yourself is Especially Powerful
Recording yourself is another way to hold yourself accountable.
Regularly recording yourself is an important step toward improving, whether or not you take regular piano lessons.
Recordings are objective proof of where you started and where you are now.
In fact, listening to my old recordings is particularly motivating because I can hear the progress I’ve made, even when it doesn’t seem like I’m making progress day to day.
Another feature I really love about Modacity is the built-in recording feature.
It lets you save recordings organized by song, so you can go back and listen to all the progress you’ve made.
Make Practice More Interesting – Not Just More Disciplined
Another common reason adult piano students stop practicing is boredom.
If every practice session involves playing songs you don’t like, exercises you find pointless, and a general sense of drudgery, it’s time to infuse some fun back in.
Try variety in all its forms:
- Work on new music you find inspiring
- Try a technical challenge.
- Sight-read
- Improvise
- Play something purely for fun.
- Work on musicality
- Experiment with dynamics
- Practice a tiny passage.
- Listen to a professional performance.
The Goal Isn’t to Eliminate Discipline
There are all kinds of reasons why people sit down to play the piano.
Sometimes they have definite goals, pieces they want to learn, technical skills they want to develop.
But it’s easy to forget that, at its core, playing piano feels good!
And on days when you’re stressed, short on time, or generally feeling unfocused, it’s important to approach practice differently.
The beauty of a consistent piano practice routine is that you have a regular space in which to explore the instrument in a way that feels compatible with the sort of day you’re having.
Be kind to yourself, and know that unfocused practice matters as much as focused practice.
It all counts.
Use a Practice App to Remove the Friction
Another reason why I started using Modacity is that it replaced all the other random apps I was using.
Modacity includes:
- Practice timer
- Recorder
- Metronome
- Tuner
- Drone/tone generator
- Notes
- Practice lists/playlists
- Practice tracking
- Reminders
- Practice history
- Deliberate Practice mode
How This Can Support a Habit
Before Practicing
Create a practice list in the Modacity app so you know exactly what you’ll work on when you sit down to play.
You can even create unique practice lists by day of the week.
During Practice
Eliminate wasted time with the built-in timer for each practice item.
With the Deliberate Practice function within the app, you can select what aspect of a particular passage you’d like to improve upon.
Choose a method you’d like to try to improve this aspect.
Record yourself using the method.
Listen back to determine whether the method was successful.
The app will prompt you to determine whether the method was successful and, if so, it will add it to your lifetime tally of improvements.
If you’re struggling with rhythm, pull up the metronome feature, also embedded right in the app.
After Practice
Take a moment to reflect on the session.
Consider both the successes and the challenges.
One of the most amazing features of this app is that it records your progress over time through saved recordings, total minutes spent practicing, and improvements.
It’s solid evidence of the time you’ve invested at the keyboard, something that’s otherwise difficult to tally.
Modacity has been crucial to my development as an adult pianist working on my own.
It’s shifted practice from motivation-inspired to routine-oriented, which means I no longer rely on how I’m feeling on any given day.
I know I have to keep that practice count going, and the only way that happens is by sitting down at the keys.
Emergency “Motivation Fades” Piano Practice Plan
On those days you don’t feel like practicing, go easy on yourself.
Today was one of those days for me.
I was completely drained from work, and the last thing I felt like doing was concentrating.
So I played whatever I felt like playing.
Nothing serious.
It wasn’t technically accurate and didn’t advance my skills.
But it felt soothing.
Like the emotional balm my brain had been craving all day.
Come up with a few options for yourself on days when your brain is totally drained, so you’ll have an emergency backup.
Consistency Doesn’t Mean Never Missing a Day
You’ll have days when you don’t have the bandwidth for practice.
And that’s ok!
The key is not letting those days stretch into weeks.
It’s fine, and even healthy, to skip practice, especially when life is busy.
But don’t let it stall your progress completely.
Commit to only small skips here and there rather than large, months-long gaps in practice.
Final Thoughts on How to Build a Practice Habit That Survives Your Motivation
If there’s one thing I hope you take away from this post, it’s that you don’t have to feel motivated every time you sit down at the piano.
Motivation will come and go. Some days you’ll be excited to practice. Other days, the piano will be the last thing on your mind.
That’s normal.
The goal isn’t to create a practice routine that depends on motivation. It’s to create a system that makes it easier to show up anyway.
Find a time that works for you. Make starting as easy as possible. Know what you want to accomplish when you sit down. Track your progress. Give yourself permission to have days where you play for the enjoyment of it.
And if you’re struggling to keep all of those pieces organized, a practice app like Modacity can help. I’ve found it particularly useful for turning my practice from something I hope I’ll get around to doing into something that’s simply part of my routine.
But you don’t need a perfect system.
You don’t need to practice for an hour every day.
You don’t even need to practice every single day.
You just need to keep coming back.
Because becoming a better pianist isn’t about having one spectacular practice session.
It’s about all those ordinary sessions—the 15 minutes you squeezed in after a long day, the passage you finally figured out, the recording you made even though you didn’t think you sounded very good, and yes, even the days when you sat down and played something simply because it felt good.
It all counts.
And when motivation fades, having a system in place can help you remember that you don’t have to feel like practicing to be the kind of person who practices.
You just have to sit down and begin.
Curious for more? Here are a few posts to peak your interest:
- What To Do When Your Piano Memory Fails: Simple Tips
- Why Most Adults Quit Piano Right Before Real Progress
- How Long Does It Take to Learn Piano as a Busy Adult?
- Why Do I Forget Piano Music So Quickly? Tips to Improve
- Best Piano Learning Apps for Adults Ranked by Learning Style
Until next time, happy practicing!
